Do you make it a habit of signing for flight instruction, paying a non-refundable deposit, and then wanting your money back? Do us a favor an complain on some other forum like "Complainers' Anonymous" or "Cry-Baby Chat Board." Good grief.
Did you not get every book, PTS, oral exam guide, jepp instrument book, Pa44 poh, Gleim prep books for 5 writtens and like 3 books for CFI stuff also with that $1000? I'm pretty sure those books wouldn't be free it you just walked into an FBO and asked for them. All those books are included in the price of the program and when you put down the deposit they send you everything you need to study. I bet if you think real hard those shirts and backpack came with a huge box of books!