Ok, so I am a newbie and a young female at that, so maybe my opinion is completely worthless and unappreciated, but I am speaking from experience when I say that sometimes it's better to NOT share your opinion if it means being rude and disrespectful to someone. I was on a message board for moms that all had babies the same month, and it ended in a disaster because of people who feel like they need to insult others. We finally started our own private board where we could ban anyone that was rude, and life has been blissful ever since. Now, I am not talking anyone specific but I see a lot of mud slinging going on. I think a lot of people would like to be able to share their stories and thoughts without fear of someone tearing them a new one. It's one thing to see things differently then others, and state your opinion, but it's another to add insults and personal attacks. At the end of the day I want to be known as the person who made the world a better place, either by making someone laugh, or sharing some insight or what ever. I'd rather be known for that, then be known as the person who always has something negative and cynical to add. Now, maybe this will go and piss someone off and you won't want me around. If so, I'll accpet that. But I hope that what it does is maybe help some of you tone down the negativity a notch so that people can happily post away and not be intimidated by the meanies. I hope you don't think I am wrong for saying something.