Hit up (private message) flyingmomof3 to get some advice. My advice would be make sure your family is supportive and the flight training will not put too much stress on the family (either emotional or financially). Good luck and have fun!
Men who are fathers and husbands and pilots can probably also offers some advice about how to manage time. (Of course, finding other women is good, but because there are so few compared to the number of men, you might not want to disregard a potentially useful resource. )