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Cheating Girlfriend

Discussion in 'Family Life' started by DrewWalden, Mar 19, 2008.

  1. DrewWalden New Member

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    Well I dated a girl for two years, then I went off to college. Three weeks later she cheated on me. Has anyone had this happen to them? How did you handle it? I am still not over it. :banghead: Any tips to truly getting over it?
  2. mnixon New Member

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    = You, getting over your problem. Your welcome.
  3. aloft Suspended

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    Plenty more where she came from. Kick her to the curb.
  4. Boris Badenov Sapping and Impurifying.

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    She did you a favor. College wouldn't be College if you couldn't chase tail. Look at it this way: Cheaters are cheaters. She would have done it eventually, better now than later. Give her the old heave ho and start looking for your next casual hooku...I mean girlfriend.
  5. Chewie von Nubbins New Member

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    Call that Cheaters TV show and make some money off of the situation and embarrass the jezebel on national TV.
  6. Gonzo Well-Known Member

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    Sleep with her mom and/or sister.:D
  7. ASpilot2be CASA driver

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    Karmas a, well, female dog:D

    It will catch up with her sometime.
  8. Hacker15e Member Of Extraordinary Magnitude

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    I'm sure it seems like a big deal now, but with some perspective it won't.

    There is no room in anyone's life for an intimate partner who isn't 100% trustworthy...so tell her 'so long' and enjoy the fun of being single.

    Besides...dude...you're just starting college. As someone else mentioned, you should be out banging everything that will agree to with you. You have the entire rest of your life to find your soulmate.
  9. Firebird2XC Who Dares, Wins.

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    No matter what they tell you, women are just as sneaky, devious, and potentially evil as men.

    They are, however, not ALL that way. Same goes for the male of the species.

    Go find another one. The last one clearly wasn't worth your time. You just thought she was. Not your fault for taking someone at their word.
  10. Derg Major Domo

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    My best advice? Don't go out and find another "girlfriend".

    Go have some fun, free of the "you didn't call"/"you forgot valentines day"/etc responsibilities otherwise you'll just be replacing her with another copy and probably end up right back where you started.

    But if one pops up, great! If one doesn't, there's no rush. Luckily, us males age gracefully so there's no clock.

    Hey, think of it this way, better this happen now than when you've got a house, a couple cars, a few kids and a set of in-laws, yes? :)
  11. mpenguin1 Well-Known Member

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    Well if you really want to freak her out, sleep with the guy she slept with:panic::D
  12. skidz Well-Known Member

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    Uhm, yeah something like that happened to me like 16 years ago or so. My advice is... let it go! The sea is huge and teaming with sea life :) There is an advantage in being single, you might just as well enjoy it cause it probably won't last :) The "real one" won't cheat on you. You're not missing out one bit by letting this girl go.
  13. CirrusMonkey No Real Usefulness

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    In this case, I hope that she slept with another woman!!!
  14. Propilot Well-Known Member

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    Here ya go...

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    Here is the link if the above doesnt work.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jaZyhukMk84


    Take notes, then give us a full report.
  15. Number1atNumber2 Tries to keep it fun.

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    http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/721/ - An I idea for getting payback...

    Best thing you can do is move on, IMO. I know this hurts like hell right now, but time will heal this quite a bit if you let it, so don't dwell on this so long that it changes you for the worse.

    So go out, enjoy college and chase tail. There are better ones out there, and now you have the opportunity to find one.
  16. Number1atNumber2 Tries to keep it fun.

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    Damn, you beat me to it to post that... :laff:
  17. surreal1221 Well-Known Member

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    It wasn't me. . .yet. :)

    Nevertheless, like everyone else has said. . .

    You're young, appears unattached, and it also appears you guys didn't have any long term plans (such as marriage. . .if that were the case, then I'd play it a little different. . .such as sticking it out, and then later when you're 30-40years old, have a little fling with a beautiful lady and call it pay back. . .- wait did I just say that?) so follow through with moving on, kicking her to the curb, and meeting and dating as many women as you want.

    Best of luck.
  18. mikecweb Well-Known Member

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    Dude sorry.



    She said she was single.
  19. SmitteyB Well-Known Member

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    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. NOW THAT IS FUNNY.
  20. Velocipede Suspended

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    If you weren't married to her, then she's single. And single people, by definition, can't "cheat." If you wanted her exclusively, you should have married the girl. And no one believes you went to college and remained faithful, so give us a break here.

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