[ QUOTE ] The biggest regret I have with my midlife career change is the fact that I'm never home anymore, and I can never plan to do anything with my wife. I miss my wife, having weekends off, being able to take vacation, and not being on call all the time! I can't imagine having 2 full days off anymore, let alone 10! Where do I find that job??? I must admit I question why I ever went into this field sometimes. [/ QUOTE ] Greg Sheesh! That is the secret to marriage, "Separation"! It adds spice to the marriage, the wanting part.