Pilot VS. Relationships

[DPApilot]

Originally Posted by Rontux

Well considering she's the one who sent me the link, I suppose she's ok with it! hahahaha

....really though, if your relationship is harmed by a cartoon character? LOL. I'd say that's a pretty unstable relationship right there!! The best relationships have a solid core, of course. They are very resistant to the world. I have had really good friends with girlfriends who told them who to talk to, what they could and couldn't do, who they should act like, etc, etc. What a waste of a life. God gave you an ability to be yourself, so you mise well use it. And like I said before, relationships are all about synergy. If the synergy is not there, there is no point to the relationship. It has died. People who live together with no common purpose, no love, no respect? They are just bringing each other down. There are so many fresh people out there waiting to be loved and just waiting to be paired with that perfect person...does love take work? Oh sure, everything does. it's not always easy. But it is always worth it, if it's right. If it's not right, it's not worth it. Thats the bottom line.

I tell you something, if my girlfriend told me what I could and couldn't do, I'd have left a LONG time ago, as would she. We don't do that. That is stupid, it's selfish, and worst of all, it FAILS!! If I want to have band practice for 5 hours, and she wants to go out with her girlfriends, so be it. We both have seperate lives and we need to respect that. I have learned from mistakes. You can never control anybody. It doesn't work. Anyone who reads this can disregard it if they like, but like I said, it's just form years of failed relationships, and finally finding the right one. When I am with my girlfriend nothing can make me upset. I would never want to be with anyone else. I tried to say that with other girls; it was forced. This time around it's natural and true. So I either learned from the past, I am the luckiest mofo in the world, of both. But I can attest to true love and say it is NOT supposed to be a fight.

If it doesn't feel right, it isn't. Life is just too damn short!!

Take care!

Whats weird is i know a kid at Purdue that has a girlfriend from New York....

[amjon]

Originally Posted by Old Dominion Flyer

Anyone care to comment on premarital counseling? At the moment, I'm enduring the guantlet of premarital counseling that is the Catholic church. I'm not Catholic myself, so it seems both thorough and intimidating at times. For the sake of comparison, what is premarital counseling like when it isn't affiliated with a church?

When I was married, we had to go through the premarital counseling from the Catholic Church. Did it do any good? I would say no. I don't know what it would have been like from a private professional.

[K-Train]

Originally Posted by jtrain609

How old are you, 16? You should be working on trying desperatly to get laid,

Fail

[Erik1010]

Originally Posted by jtrain609

How old are you, 16? You should be working on trying desperatly to get laid, not worry about a marriage you may or may not have in another decade!

I mean for reals, good job with thinking ahead, but try not to think TOO far ahead.

That's some good advice

[flyingwriter]

Originally Posted by wilco

That's some good advice

That's some horrible advice. That's one way to ruin your life right there. He should be saving himself for marriage, not screwing anything that moves.

[killbilly]

Originally Posted by flyingwriter

That's some horrible advice. That's one way to ruin your life right there. He should be saving himself for marriage, not screwing anything that moves.

I think you're wrong.

[ASpilot2be]

No sense in arguing, everybody has different views on the subject. Nobody sitting on a forum is going to change ones views.

[mikecweb]

Originally Posted by flyingwriter

That's some horrible advice. That's one way to ruin your life right there. He should be saving himself for marriage, not screwing anything that moves.

Having held each of these opinions at one point in my life I'm firmly on the latter portion as I've gone through some crap in the past couple years.

[Alaska45]

For advise for the 16 year old OP, we all can probably all agree that if he finds himself with a little lady and is "cleared for the option," then a "touch and go" is performed... Be smart about it. I have a good friend whose son was born when he was 17 and his plans for the future definitely changed. A birth of a child is a wonderful thing, just make sure you are ready and plan for it.