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March 19th, 2008, 21:25
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#1 | | Junior Member
Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Cleveland, TN
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|  Cheating Girlfriend
Well I dated a girl for two years, then I went off to college. Three weeks later she cheated on me. Has anyone had this happen to them? How did you handle it? I am still not over it.  Any tips to truly getting over it?
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March 20th, 2008, 01:32
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#2 | | Senior Member
Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Ann Arbor
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
+ 
= You, getting over your problem. Your welcome.
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March 20th, 2008, 01:34
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#3 | | Old Skool
Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Inside your OODA loop
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Plenty more where she came from. Kick her to the curb.
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March 20th, 2008, 01:39
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#4 | | Junior Member
Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Saint Misery, Misery
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
She did you a favor. College wouldn't be College if you couldn't chase tail. Look at it this way: Cheaters are cheaters. She would have done it eventually, better now than later. Give her the old heave ho and start looking for your next casual hooku...I mean girlfriend. | |
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March 20th, 2008, 01:50
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#5 | | Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: KGKY
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Call that Cheaters TV show and make some money off of the situation and embarrass the jezebel on national TV.
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March 20th, 2008, 02:05
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#6 | | Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2005
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
Sleep with her mom and/or sister. 
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March 20th, 2008, 02:08
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#7 | | Old Skool
Join Date: May 2005 Location: Paradise:)
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Karmas a, well, female dog
It will catch up with her sometime. | |
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March 20th, 2008, 02:09
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#8 | | Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: RAF Lakenheath, UK
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
I'm sure it seems like a big deal now, but with some perspective it won't.
There is no room in anyone's life for an intimate partner who isn't 100% trustworthy...so tell her 'so long' and enjoy the fun of being single.
Besides...dude...you're just starting college. As someone else mentioned, you should be out banging everything that will agree to with you. You have the entire rest of your life to find your soulmate.
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March 20th, 2008, 10:40
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Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Big D
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
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Originally Posted by DrewWalden  Well I dated a girl for two years, then I went off to college. Three weeks later she cheated on me. Has anyone had this happen to them? How did you handle it? I am still not over it. Any tips to truly getting over it? | No matter what they tell you, women are just as sneaky, devious, and potentially evil as men.
They are, however, not ALL that way. Same goes for the male of the species.
Go find another one. The last one clearly wasn't worth your time. You just thought she was. Not your fault for taking someone at their word.
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March 20th, 2008, 10:49
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#10 | | Agent Smith
Join Date: Dec 1969 Location: KSDL
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My best advice? Don't go out and find another "girlfriend".
Go have some fun, free of the "you didn't call"/"you forgot valentines day"/etc responsibilities otherwise you'll just be replacing her with another copy and probably end up right back where you started.
But if one pops up, great! If one doesn't, there's no rush. Luckily, us males age gracefully so there's no clock.
Hey, think of it this way, better this happen now than when you've got a house, a couple cars, a few kids and a set of in-laws, yes?  | |
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March 20th, 2008, 10:58
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#11 | | Old Skool
Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: California
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
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Originally Posted by DrewWalden Well I dated a girl for two years, then I went off to college. Three weeks later she cheated on me. Has anyone had this happen to them? How did you handle it? I am still not over it. Any tips to truly getting over it? | Well if you really want to freak her out, sleep with the guy she slept with 
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March 20th, 2008, 11:07
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#12 | | Senior Member
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Originally Posted by DrewWalden Well I dated a girl for two years, then I went off to college. Three weeks later she cheated on me. Has anyone had this happen to them? How did you handle it? I am still not over it. Any tips to truly getting over it? | Uhm, yeah something like that happened to me like 16 years ago or so. My advice is... let it go! The sea is huge and teaming with sea life There is an advantage in being single, you might just as well enjoy it cause it probably won't last The "real one" won't cheat on you. You're not missing out one bit by letting this girl go. | |
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March 20th, 2008, 12:58
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#13 | | Junior Member
Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Knoxville, TN.
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
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Originally Posted by mpenguin1 Well if you really want to freak her out, sleep with the guy she slept with | In this case, I hope that she slept with another woman!!!
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March 20th, 2008, 13:45
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#14 | | Junior Member
Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: NE United States
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Here ya go...
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Here is the link if the above doesnt work. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jaZyhukMk84
Take notes, then give us a full report.
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March 20th, 2008, 13:46
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#15 | | Junior Member
Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Chicago
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/721/ - An I idea for getting payback...
Best thing you can do is move on, IMO. I know this hurts like hell right now, but time will heal this quite a bit if you let it, so don't dwell on this so long that it changes you for the worse.
So go out, enjoy college and chase tail. There are better ones out there, and now you have the opportunity to find one.
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March 20th, 2008, 13:48
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#16 | | Junior Member
Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Chicago
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
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Originally Posted by Propilot Here ya go...
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Here is the link if the above doesnt work. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jaZyhukMk84
Take notes, then give us a full report. |
Damn, you beat me to it to post that... 
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March 20th, 2008, 15:49
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#17 | | Old Skool
Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Alpha Tango Lima
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
It wasn't me. . .yet.
Nevertheless, like everyone else has said. . .
You're young, appears unattached, and it also appears you guys didn't have any long term plans (such as marriage. . .if that were the case, then I'd play it a little different. . .such as sticking it out, and then later when you're 30-40years old, have a little fling with a beautiful lady and call it pay back. . .- wait did I just say that?) so follow through with moving on, kicking her to the curb, and meeting and dating as many women as you want.
Best of luck.
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March 20th, 2008, 16:03
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#18 | | Old Skool
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Dude sorry.
She said she was single.
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March 20th, 2008, 17:18
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#19 | | Old Skool
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
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Originally Posted by mikecweb Dude sorry.
She said she was single. | HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. NOW THAT IS FUNNY.
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March 20th, 2008, 17:23
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#20 | | Old Skool
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 2,239
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If you weren't married to her, then she's single. And single people, by definition, can't "cheat." If you wanted her exclusively, you should have married the girl. And no one believes you went to college and remained faithful, so give us a break here.
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March 20th, 2008, 18:18
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#21 | | Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Memphis
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| Re: Cheating Girlfriend
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Originally Posted by aloft Plenty more where she came from. Kick her to the curb. | I have to completely agree with Aloft... That might be a first.
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March 20th, 2008, 18:47
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#22 | | Senior Member
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Posts: 840
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Punch her in the face......... | |
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March 20th, 2008, 21:48
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#23 | | Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: KSTL
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Originally Posted by DrewWalden Well I dated a girl for two years, then I went off to college. Three weeks later she cheated on me. Has anyone had this happen to them? How did you handle it? I am still not over it. Any tips to truly getting over it? | I'm sorry your girlfriend cheated on you. Happened to me when I started college too, but it was my ticket to freedom.
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March 20th, 2008, 22:16
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#24 | | Old Skool
Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: El Forko Grande
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Go find someone that looks like her and nail her.
Revenge sex is the best. | |
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March 20th, 2008, 23:18
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#25 | | Old Skool
Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: KPHX, KFFZ, KIWA
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...wow, lots of cheating girlfriend threads lately, what's up?  | |
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