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Originally Posted by Kristie  
just because she wants a break doesn't necessarily mean she's out there smackin' someone else already (girls don't operate the same way guys do when they "want a break") but she probably is looking (ie: window shopping)....remember, with a lot of girls, it's all about the bird with the most colorful tail, cleanest feathers and/or sweetest song...it could also be that she may feel you're smothering her too much and yea, smothering and/or too much attention doesn't work (typically).
make yourself a challenge, make her chase your colorful tail and see where it gets you. if she doesn't sing back, let her go. |
Thanks for all of the input/advice... some of it I agree with, some of it I don't. That's good though, kept me thinking. After talking with some mutual friends... Kristie's response sounds like the closest to being accurate. I'm not trying to smother her, I've been doing what she's been asking of me. I won't call/text and see what happens. We do have dinner set up in a couple weeks-- meet up and see what happens. She wanted that. I do hope it works out, but if not... life goes on. I'm not on a quest for a new woman at the moment... if this doesn't work, I think I'll take some time off.