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Old April 14th, 2008, 15:38   #41
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Default Re: girlfriend issues

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Originally Posted by Fred the Barber View Post
Be yourself. If she loves you for who you are, she will make as much effort as you have. Lay off the attention toward her and see where it goes when she is the one that has to make the calls and make the moves. I'm guessing she is window shopping, knowing she has you in her back pocket if other options don't work. Beware: A guy who is viewed as "smothering" from the womans standpoint is not good. Being a little more elusive will likely pay off. Women seem to like challenges for some strange reason.


just because she wants a break doesn't necessarily mean she's out there smackin' someone else already (girls don't operate the same way guys do when they "want a break") but she probably is looking (ie: window shopping)....remember, with a lot of girls, it's all about the bird with the most colorful tail, cleanest feathers and/or sweetest song...it could also be that she may feel you're smothering her too much and yea, smothering and/or too much attention doesn't work (typically).

make yourself a challenge, make her chase your colorful tail and see where it gets you. if she doesn't sing back, let her go.
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