[wildfreightess]

Speaking as someone who's pulled the same move, and had the same move pulled on her, Velo's right. It's someone else, she wants out, and she doesn't want to hurt you. Take her up on the offer of a "break." If after the "break", you both decide to get back together and you're not living in the same town, be wary. Best bet is to work on your career and a life without her in it. You'll be glad you did.