Also almost identical to my situation over the last 3 years... long distance, things went well, but I actually made the decision to end it due to her moving for grad school and me not wanting to move to where she's going to school. 3-4 years of long distance is already too much and I figured if it was going to be even longer and even further away it was time to experience new things, if its meant to be it'll come back around (pretty cliche, I know).
That said, within a couple weeks I've met (or actually became more than friends with a friend) a girl and havent been this happy in a long time. Strange how things work out...its nowhere near as serious as the previous relationship, but its new and maybe thats exactly what you need... maybe its not, but I'm enjoying myself
