Re: girlfriend issues Velocipede is indelicate, but essentially correct. Be 100% supportive, helpful, thoughtful, etc till the first nail goes in the coffin ("I just want a break"). Then pretend she doesn't exist. Whether she's already with someone else or just thinking about it, the only way she's going to remember what she's got is through it being abruptly withdrawn. If that's not enough for her, tough titty, at least tell yourself it's her loss (try to believe it), move on. |