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Originally Posted by gomntwins  My questions: First off, I don't know what a break is... anybody? Also, where should I go from here? She wasn't as negative about us this time around... but it's not positive. |
A break can mean anything, maybe she is considering a relationship with somebody else, or, maybe she wants time to see if she wants to continue the relationship with you.
So, I would do just that, sever communication with her this way she gets what she wants.
Also, remember, the one thing women hate more is a guy that begs, if you constantly try to get in touch with her, you are defeating the purpose of the "break"
I know it will be tough to not contact her, but, that is what I would do.
Let her go weeks without hearing from you, if the spark is there, she will come back, if the spark is gone, well, you know.
So, no phone calls checking up on her, no cutesy thinking of you cards, no flowers, no emails, nada, nothing.....
If she makes contact with you, say something like this break is good for both of you & the relationship....