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Doug Taylor · April 14th, 2008, 01:18

I'm the last guy to give out relationship advice, but since you asked, here goes.

And your mileage may vary...

I wouldn't bother chasing her around. Be a less available, don't always pick up the phone when she calls and see what she does.

If she doesn't make any effort to get in contact with you, well that's what she was looking for.

Most importantly, what do YOU want? What are YOUR needs? Is the relationship fulfilling those? If not, cut bait before either of you thinks marriage, then a house, and then kids are going to fix it.

Usually, whenever I gave a lady the "I need a break" talk, to me, that meant that "Well, I need to go chase tail, but I want to hedge my bets by not completely breaking up. If it doesn't work out, I'll be back, but if it does, sayonara!"

April 14th, 2008, 01:18	#10
Doug Taylor Agent Smith Join Date: Dec 1969 Location: KSDL Posts: 37,985	Re: girlfriend issues I'm the last guy to give out relationship advice, but since you asked, here goes. And your mileage may vary... I wouldn't bother chasing her around. Be a less available, don't always pick up the phone when she calls and see what she does. If she doesn't make any effort to get in contact with you, well that's what she was looking for. Most importantly, what do YOU want? What are YOUR needs? Is the relationship fulfilling those? If not, cut bait before either of you thinks marriage, then a house, and then kids are going to fix it. Usually, whenever I gave a lady the "I need a break" talk, to me, that meant that "Well, I need to go chase tail, but I want to hedge my bets by not completely breaking up. If it doesn't work out, I'll be back, but if it does, sayonara!" __________________ Doug Taylor http://76school.flyblog.com (old!) http://30west.flyblog.com (updated 11/28)