My stratagey when I get home and get the "Uhh....yeah....you disrupted my flow", is I get my screw up out of the way. Then what ever is torquing her up, I provide a convenient source to direct the anger.
The remainder of the time at home is then drama-free.
Luckily, this only happens in a blue moon for me. I haven't got the "Well, I'm pregnant, and I have to watch the boy while you're in Korea" speech yet.
