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Old April 2nd, 2008, 20:49   #19
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Default Re: How do you Parent Pilots do it?

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Originally Posted by JayAre View Post
Kinda late on this.
I have two kids. 4 year old boy and a 8 month girl. I fly freight with AMF and its very tough right now. I don't see them in the morning and their asleep by the time I get home. Im looking at walking away from aviation right now. My son has Autism and is fighting fevers that we or the doctors can't figure out. But I can't afford to leave the health insurance is pretty good with AMF. I may take an outstation and leave the family again for six months to make more money. My wife has been the backbone in the family in handling everything. I really don't know why she hasn't left me. Its tough, what makes it easy is if I can bid reserve than I have more home time with the family, but Im not logging time. Either way Im pretty down right now and just dealing with it. If it wasn't for my wife I don't know were I would be.
Stick with you gut my freind, There is going to be a point in your like when you look back and you say, wow, I can't believe I made here from that. In my oppinion, what does not kill you only makes you stonger and more adapted to situations, especially if you have GOD in your corner!

God Bless!


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You'll do just fine. I'm new at this as well, so I'm learning as I go. It's tough, but workable. I have a 2 1/2 year old little guy and one on the way, so I'm just learning the ins and outs of it all. I just got back from a 4 day and my wife picked me up at the airport. It made it worth it when I spotted them from the escalator and she couldn't contain him enough. She finally let him go when I was near the bottom and he screamed running through people yelling "daddy"...it made me melt. He about tackled me while holding my face with his hands.

It sounds like you've got a great supporting wife (she must be if you've chosen aviation) and that's a huge key in all of this. Take the time to learn your bidding system and that will also help out a ton.

I wish you the best of luck in all of this...
That is a realy heart warming story, makes me think about my future kids
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