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Mattio · March 24th, 2008, 04:34

N8081G probably has said the most helpful and insightful things in this thread. He gets it.

The attitude that you have about this shouldn't be about sleeping with people and throwing it in her face or sleeping with other people to regain your confidence. Everyone should strive for being happy and confident regardless of events in their life, believe me I know it's tough sometimes, but it's the only path to true happiness. Do not continue to adjust your behavior FOR HER or any other women... Don't do anything to seek affirmation from other people, be yourself, shamelessly. And the funny thing about it is when you do this, you'll actually get more women.

And just a lil side note, if you convey to a woman that you are worried about them cheating it becomes 3000 times more likely that they will. The best thing you can do is convey that you are with them just to have fun when you are together and you're not trying to hold them back, it's then a lot less likely that they will sleep with other people, ironic I know.

March 24th, 2008, 04:34	#76
Mattio Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Boston Posts: 102	Re: Cheating Girlfriend N8081G probably has said the most helpful and insightful things in this thread. He gets it. The attitude that you have about this shouldn't be about sleeping with people and throwing it in her face or sleeping with other people to regain your confidence. Everyone should strive for being happy and confident regardless of events in their life, believe me I know it's tough sometimes, but it's the only path to true happiness. Do not continue to adjust your behavior FOR HER or any other women... Don't do anything to seek affirmation from other people, be yourself, shamelessly. And the funny thing about it is when you do this, you'll actually get more women. And just a lil side note, if you convey to a woman that you are worried about them cheating it becomes 3000 times more likely that they will. The best thing you can do is convey that you are with them just to have fun when you are together and you're not trying to hold them back, it's then a lot less likely that they will sleep with other people, ironic I know.