 Re: Cheating Girlfriend
Not saying that I agree with N80 but I understand what he speaks of. Most guys or girls in this generation X or Y don't want someone who treats them with respect.
They want someone or something they can't have, and if they can't have it they want it even more. Anything they can easily have isn't much of a challenge, even if it is the best thing for them.
That being said someone shouldn't be a pushover, too nice, have no backbone, start talking long term commitment too early into a relationship and start buying the other gifts to spoil them.
But neither should a nice guy, pretend to be a jackass, just to make himself or herself more interesting to the object of his/her affection.
I tried that several times, but in the end figured why should I have to act different just to keep someone. There are 3 billion people on the planet, not everyone is going to like you, or think you're hot ####!
But, there is someone out there for everyone, and in the right amount of time you'll find them. Until then work on yourself, but more importantly always be true to yourself, and you'll do fine in the game of dating! |