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Originally Posted by N8081G  Where have i said that you need to be a jerk to improve yourself? All i am saying is that people who often don't have success in relationships should consider where they went wrong and do something about it. I'll share with you a favorite quote of mine..
" A relationship is not a requirement. Your health and welfare do not require a realtionship. Believe in yourself---regardless of your situation right at this moment--and you will be complete."
Please don't take my comments as being bitter because i am not that kinda of person at all. I just think that people need to stop putting so much emphasis on fate and actually take control of their own lives. You are responsible for what you become and you have no one to blame but yourself. |
I agree with you. Anyone who plays games not true to themselves in a relationship, by me, are jerks. Your point I believe coincides with mine in that it isn't really necessary for a relationship for most. . .yes, many feel compelled to want one, but it's not really necessary.
Now, for those who believe that it is, for those involved, it's all about performing your due diligence to ensure you've made the right choice. Even then, if you fail and misjudge, if you still wish for a relationship, simply try again. . . period. Don't dwell on the past; look optimistic into the future.