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Originally Posted by MQAAord  I've been pretty happily married for 6 years now. With no head games.
The key is be yourself and act in ways that make you happy. If you do that, you're not living your life to control the feelings of others, which is what you're trying to do if you play "head games" like not calling or not paying her attention to "make" her want you more.
I actually think we may (maybe?) be saying a similar thing, though I found your last sentence confusing. I dated guys who weren't the right one for me, and ones who most decidedly WEREN'T worth my time! That doesn't make me pathetic, it just means those relationships weren't meant to last. Not all are. |
This could be a sensitive topic for some people on here and a lot of you will disagree with what i am saying but i just want to clarify that at this point in my life i don't have time for committments or anything serious. What i am talking about works for me in the dating scene with the intentions of not taking it any furthur than a casual relationship..
Look, it is true that there are people out there who simply aren't worth your time, however, there are times when it is your own damn fault that the person left you instead of claiming them to not worth your time. If you keep on getting disappointed in relationships and if someone constantly cheats on you, maybe it is YOU who needs to change and make yourself into a better person instead of being a pushover. What i am saying is people often rely on fate and destiny to bring them a significant other and if they are single, they would say that it was the way it was meant to be..or that i have given up hope on men/women. You have heard these before.