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Originally Posted by mpenguin1  |
Keeping it real!!!
True story. . . mine. Thirty three years ago. I'm dating a girlfriend. Thought I was hittin' like I was supposed to be. . . turns out not to really be the case, as she was out there. . .I mean
REALLY out there. Everyone knew but me. During those periods when she wasn't around, turns out I was most compatible with her roommate; turns out I was truly hooked on her roommate as a whole person soulmate. The "ex" was a nice booty call though.
Three years later, married the roommate. Thirty years later, the ex girlfriend, whose now an ADA in Florida, still tries to rekindle a lost love after being severely rejected by me back in the day. I lost no sleep over it; made me a better man for it. Made me happy I found out who she was back then that I did not find out later if I had been stupid enough to have married her.
Life is good!
On a more serious note, I did have to self-analyze what I was or was not doing which is why she betrayed our trust when she said she were monogamous. Turns out I wasn't giving her what she wanted. Had she communicated it to me, she would have gotten it; she simply never asked, but she lied to me, so that was it for us. It's all about trust; if it aint there, move on. Say to yourself it wasn't you, for if it were, she would have told you. Now, if she did communicate it to you and you failed to respond appropriately, that's on you.