We're cool man. It just sounded a little harsh.
I honestly wish I had more chances. Vectors to final for the visual just isn't any fun, I much prefer to fly it in the soup. Cruising however, keep it nice and clear so I can enjoy the scenery.
As for the Airways/United flying, sometimes in the course of one day we do both! When I was based out of HPN we'd fly to IAD as United, then taxi the plane over to the Z gates and do an AOO turn as Airways before back to the United side to go back to HPN.