[TheWife]

I don't think he needs to do that quite yet. She may just be freaking out over the situation and trying to grasp some level of control over her future as well. It's a lot to ask of a person to be a pilot's spouse. If he loves her enough to have proposed to her, then I'm sure he loves her enough to give a few things a try before just sending her out the door. Heaven knows I've freaked out my fair share of times over this industry. Luckily for my dh, when we got married, I was young and 100% misinformed and naive about airlines and training. I didn't know the truth till it was too late, I've learned to deal with it, and she may be able to as well, with a little help and communication.