[TheWife]

Have her post her side on jetgirls. There are a lot of women there that have already been through it and live it, and have been for a long time. They can validate her concerns and also show her the positive side of a pilot husband. We can help her talk about your relationship and how no relationship is ever the perfect package. She may find someone else that isn't a pilot, but he may have a bunch of other traits that she despises and then realize a pilot wouldn't have been so bad. You may quit flying and then resent her and ruin your relationship. It's definitely something that needs to be talked about and worked out before you take the next step. Too many people say "well, let's just get through the wedding and then I'll be able to make him/her change their mind."