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Old May 11th, 2007, 23:06   #31
S.T.Aviator
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Default Re: dealing with an addict family member

One thing I have come to realize when trying to help friends or family members is to always stay grounded and make sure my needs are taken care of first. This is not meant to sound selfish, but how can we help someone else when our cup is half full. If we come from a place of peace and understanding we can accomplish much more than coming from a place of fear and frustration. Take time to do the things you enjoy in life and at the same time, be there for your brother. We are all here to walk our own special path in life. Sometimes it may not make sense when we see all the suffering in the world, but we all have a divine plan to fullfill.
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