I have been happily married to the most admirable and understanding wife (celebrated the 3rd anniversary last week)...
Let me share (not that most people care but since your curious and all.......)
I met her as a (poor) student on a loan (cheap) in beautiful San Diego CA.
After pasta/bread through school/CFI (she moved in quite quickly !). I got a job flying cargo (backside of clock lifestyle...harsh on others !!) in OHIO.....she had been all her life in sunny SD and she followed me (as newly wed) to OHIO...that's rainy/freezy/bory OHIO (no offense buckeye fans
). And two and half years still on the road 5 days a week and asleep most of the day when home......we are still most amazingly in love (and married)
I just announced her that i might take a commuter job since i can't really wait for the original plan (the industry being slow and all) and thus taking the nice 50% pay cut and 100% seniority cut that goes with it...............and she still talks to me ! I say I'm lucky, but it's just me !