[Stoneage]

First: You are not too old.

Buying a plane can be a good way to go but don't rush out just yet and buy one. Get your license first then fly several different aircraft to learn what you like and dislike about each. Talk to aircraft owners about the costs of owning. A plane that is economical to operate (low fuel burn), reliable (not constantly down for maintenance) and instrument capable could save you a bundle and speed along your progress. It could be a nightmare if you are uncomfortable in the plane due to size restrictions, it costs too much to operate, or if it is broken every time you want to fly.

You haven't said if your wife likes to fly. After you get your licence take her flying, if she enjoys it, it may make airplane ownership the way to go. If she hates flying you probably should not buy one since it will be a liablity in her eyes.

If you have to borrow all or most of the money to buy the plane it may end up being cheaper to rent.

If you want it go for it. Not recklessly but thoughtfully. Remember there is nothing wrong with flying as a hobby.

- Best of luck to you - Stoneage