Kristie, if the three boys were to come with me, there would definitely be some duct tape involved!
No, I work second shift at a newspaper and my wife works on most nights that I do not, so it's difficult for me to get away most evenings because of work or family.
A get-together for a weekend lunch would be a possibility for me, but I don't expect everyone to work around me. Just set a date and go for it, and if I can come, I surely will.
And yes, Dazz, it HAS been 10 months ... I think I've gotten at least 10 hours of sleep during that time. How's yours? Fatherhood is great, isn't it?