 Re: need some advice
I dont know what to tell you I havent been in your shoes bc my father and I get along great...But its like some of the past responses have said, no matter what you do, he will always be your father and that is something you should charish whether you like it or not. Maybe you should let him come with you on your way to cali and tell him whats been going on and how you feel and get it off your chest. Maybe the time you spend in the car will be just what is needed to fix whats rough around the edges. Make the best of it and actually try to talk to him on another level and hopefully things might work and you might be able to get some headway. My girlfriend has the same problem with her dad and it seems like the more time they spend together, the more frustrated she gets with him, but it has really started to turn around for the better. But try and let him come with you because riding in the car and talking with you and getting your side, he might come around and will have a while to think about things on his ride out to cali and especially on the plane on the way home alone........Hope that helps and I wish you luck....
thats my 2 cents |