Well, I had to deal with a bad apple or two, before I found the one I have now . . .
My wife watched me go from a broke CFI, to a pretty well-paid CFI, to a broke freight dawg, to a pretty well paid freight dawg, and back to being a broke freight dawg - and she still married me!
I will say this, though - if your woman supports you, keep her. If your woman doesn't support you, drop her like a bad habit. She's simply not worth it. It's better to be single, than to be with a woman that doesn't support you 100%. 98% just isn't enough . . .