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Originally Posted by jtrain609  I can't believe I'm reading some of this stuff. It makes me think we've had a change in how most of the website feels about this stuff. |
I'd respond, but "she" is a member now . . .
Oh, what the heck!!
I don't think anybody is saying that a job is more important than a person. However, I've always said that if she's not willing to support me in this endeaver, what else is she not going to support me in? Where we buy a home? How many children we have? What church we go to? The job just happens to be the specific issue at hand.
It's one thing for me to make a decision that I'm changing careers, because of the pressure of family commitments. It's another thing completely to be PRESSURED into changing careers by my wife. I love her to death, and want to be with her forever, but she knew what I did for a living when she said yes.
YMMV