[MQAAord]

Ask specifically what she wants you to do. Even make an old-fashioned 'chore chart' if that would help. Sometimes seeing written out what each of you do can help to understand what the other person does.

Everytime I think that I do all the housework, and Bill hardly ever lifts a finger to clean anything, I look outside, and remember that I do nothing in the yard. I never mow, never weed, never water, anything. So, actually it's pretty balanced when I look at it that way.