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Originally Posted by ChinookDriver I don't think people should marry "for better or for worse" if the marriage was a mistake to begin with. Face it, people make mistakes in a lot of different areas, and dating/ marriage is no exception. I'm glad that divorce is more accepted now... how many unhappy marriages have continued needlessly because of religious pressure, or by saying its "for the kids?" "Don't marry a person [if] you don't love them" sounds like a no-brainer. Hey, I completely agree. But what if you think you love them because you are young, inexperienced, or were maybe conditioned to believe you HAVE to get married. Eventually you or your spouse will come to your senses and thank goodness such a thing as a divorce exists (no matter how expensive it may be) to end the misery. Keeping a marriage together at all costs is destructive to mind and soul. |
LMAO. I'm sorry I am totally into the whole vow thing, etc. I think marriage needs to be done WITHOUT the vows for most, just have a reception and call it a day.
Sad states of mind
