Well, guys, you also need to consider that about 85% of divorces in the U.S. are precipitated by women. Women seem to not be happy often. I think perhaps that women have a fantasy idea of marriage and all of it from early in life, and real life can't live up to the fairy tale. Maybe it's something else, but I know that women are the ones that do the filing, you take your stab at it. Now, I have done it both ways, but when I filed, was due to extreme circumstances, not just "wanting to be free"...
I think the current laws that allow many women to get full support with divorce doesn't help the situation, as they get their support and freedom. Great work if you can get it. Granted, there are sometimes men that benefit from this, but rarely, very rarely. |