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Originally Posted by Kristie Max, this thread has nothing to do with you.. this is about her.. it's about her kids.. it's about the question you asked all of us for advice...
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Yes I understand that. But Tony is on a roll first attacking R2F now me. Saying that I created this thread to somehow satisy a sick deep dark desire for attention and drama.
So it kinda became about me (partly) with his insults and the constant insinuations that I have done nothing but sit back and allow this great injustice to continue.
Or that I have not taken anyones advice.
Whatever I can deal with it. What Tony and perhaps others are failing to see and understand is that I took the advice that was given here and have been greatful for it. I offered it to her and it was ignored by Vernetta what more can I do?
Yet the constant over all theme going on here is that I'm an ass. I will say again. You can't help someone who doesn't want help.
She (Vernetta) is more concerened with who her man is out effing while she is out at work then that of the safety of her or her own children.
She beat her brother up with a phone book. Stopped her cousin from helping her out of this situation. Calling the cops won't help. Because she isn't willing to press charges or leave Del Vagus.
She says he is an ass about 90% of the time and she waits,waits for that rare 10 percent of the time when he is civil to her. She thinks...hopes that she can change him and the situation will get better.
Everyone at work that is aware of her situation from her supervisor our department head and HR is concerned for her welfare.
Besides myself three of her other friends from work have been calling her trying desperately to reach her. Leaving messages on her voicemail with no reply.
Then today, Subrina a co-worker who herself is a domestic violence survivor tried to call her and her number has now been changed.
Anita her cousin has filed a police report.
The officer who took the report Anita told me said that they will investigate her claims. But that no crime has been commited and our words are mere hear say. The burden of truth lies with her.
In most cases the officer said (as I have said) the abused typically refuse to press charges against her abuser. Without any physical wounds or bruising they can only go on her (Vernetta's) word.
And her propensity to lie,cover up and make excuses for his action is blatently apparent.
-Matthew