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Originally Posted by Sprint100 Tony is right. He put it bluntly and straight to the point, but he is right. Personally, I'd wipe my hands clean after I called the police. If they can't talk sense into her then she could screw up her life all she wants. At least it would be documented, in case she came to her senses later or had to really call the police herself, he'd be taken care of. The state should take care of that (presuming the law on domestic violence is the same out here as in California).
She got you involved and I would call the cops whether she liked it or not. Plus, a life is at least worth a phone call. |
Well what you Tony and anyone else who agrees with your line of thinking are failing to understand is that. A.) I don't have her home number or address to call the police to come out too. B.) I don't even have enough info to even start a police report.
All I have are two names.Vernetta & Del Vagus. But Del Vagus does have a record of abusing women. He is currently on probabtion and in anger management classes as we speak.
So before you even go there and say "see he has a record you can file a report." Try again...it would be her word against mine. Furthermore she has already demonstrated the propencity to thwart the help of friends,family and love ones for this man. No matter what she has said in the past she isn't ready to go.
Talking to her cousin today I found out the real reason she took leave wasn't to get peace of mind and ease her stress of the situation. But to (try) to keep tabs on Del Vagus to make sure he isn't out cheating on her. Turns out her constant stress at work at least was wondering who's house he was at, what he was doing or who he was effing.
Who was with him in her car or her house while she was at work.
Not saying she isn't scared that she doesn't fear for her or her children's life but it would at least appear that for now her pride matters more.
My conscious is clear!
-Matthew