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Originally Posted by TonyC It's taking a bit of self control to keep from calling you a moron. What is making it so difficult for you to see the immediate danger that this woman is in?!?!?
And now you're just going to wash your hands and walk away?!?!?
Tell us, genius, what are you going to tell her parents at her funeral?
Call the police - - 9-1-1 - - the woman needs help.
Drop the mouse, and pick up the phone - - NOW.
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Well gee thanks TonyC for the kind words....you kiss your children with that mouth (
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I only know Vernetta from work. I only met her when I moved from collections to lending ops (I work at Chase) at the beginning of 05.
We have hung out together after work a few times with friends. But I don't know her address and never been to her house. I don't have her home number or anything.
So yea...at this point I'm done. I have done all that I can. Gave her the advise that everyone gave her from on here when we talked last. There is nothing more I can or am willing to do. Anything more and I'm an "enabler." My mother a license psycholgist even agrees. Sad as it is my mom says there are some people that no matter how much their preached at or told the correct thing to do. Their not going to see the light until their ready. Some can't get out but want to.Those are the ones that need help. Others finally after all the years/months of ##### and abuse build up the nerve to get out no matter the cost.
Besides her cousin in customer service told me that a couple of weeks ago Vernetta asked her brother to ruff him. By the time he got there she had changed her mind and when brother was "working him over." She starts hitting her brother over the head with a book. To make him stop hurting Vagus. So she is alienating everyone. Now her family is throwing up their hands. You can't help someone who isn't willing or able to first ask/seek help or get it on their own.
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I'd be more concerned for Matt at this point, because now if she does leave, her BF's got the number that Matt called from.
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Thanks for the concern.But these people are cowards plain and simple thats why they go after weaker prey. I'm not scared of him he knows it.
Also I called from my cell phone so he has no access to home address.
But he knows where I work what time I arrive and leave. I even told him my lunch schedule. Guess what nothing...again a coward! But like I said I'm out of it now...
-Matthew