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Originally Posted by GSMPilot It's really too late for anything for this women, I'd be more concerned for Matt at this point, because now if she does leave, her BF's got the number that Matt called from. Do a reverse phone number search and you can find almost anyone..BE CAREFUL MATT! I'm not to sure why she didn't just leave when he was taking a shower, instead she decides to txt someone. Can't save everyone. Kristie said it best, she has to be willing to save herself and her kids. If you gave her all the phone numbers, then i think you've made the right call in just walking away from it at this point. No need in risking yourself over someone who does not want to be helped. |
I'm sure that everyone's intent would be to reach out and offer a helping hand in a situation like this, but I tend to agree with Kristie, she's got to help herself.
A little story. My wife and I have a friend that lost her kids in an ugly divorce a few years back. She was left with nothing. Since the divorce she just couldn't stay out of any type of intimate relationship. Seems like she validated herself as a person if she had a man, any man. As long as she had a man she seemed happy even if the relationship wasn't working out. We went as far as flying her out to Phoenix, AZ about a year ago in order for her to clear her head and maybe start her life over. We offered her a place to stay and even guided her in finding a decent job with benefits, something she never really had before. The day the company offered her this job, she stated she wanted to go back home. Back to the life she had before. It was then clear to us that she couldn't be helped and she went on her way. We get an email or a phone call from her from time to time, she lives with her man who really hasn't held a permanent job or lived at the same place longer than 6 months since we've known him. But, it is what she wants, so she has it.
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