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Originally Posted by Kristie well, apparently she went back cuz otherwise he wouldn't have taken her phone and car keys... how was she able to txt msg you without her phone?
something's not adding up.. did she tell him that she's on a leave of absence or did he just not "let her go to work" today?? seems to me she told him she's on leave in which case, nobody would even think of checking up on her which makes sense as to why he took her phone and car keys... that, was a stupid move...
what about the kids & daycare? she obviously can't get them to daycare without her car...and if she doesn't take them to daycare, would the daycare workers check up on them?
if she's on a leave of absence, you'd think she's get things rolling and not even tell him she's on a leave of absence?? esp if she wanted to get away...
hell, i'd be telling him that i'd have to go to work and while *not* at work, search for some solutions...make it like it's a same ol type of work day. he can't follow her cuz he has no car.
if it looks like she's not trying to get out..then you need to step away, give her some domestic shelter phone numbers to call and tell her your not going to help her anymore if she's not going to at least try to help herself. you can't save someone that doesn't want to be saved! |
She called me on lunch and said that she was texting me when Vagus was in the shower getting ready to go to the studio.
Yes...she did tell him she is on leave! Even I told her not to,she said she had to as he drives her car during the day to and from work dropping her off and picking her up.
She said that she was going to get a get a restraining order but like you had heard that they typically don't work and sometimes the person getting the restraining order ends up dead. Also she said that now that she is on leave he never lets her drive (her) truck alone during the day he always rides along with her.
She is 31 yrs. old and has five kids. She said she wanted a man to love her and be a father to her kids. But she (of course) was finding it ever increasingly hard to find a man that wanted to stay due to her situation. Prior to meeting Del Vagus she had been single for six years.
She was kinda desperate for love by the time she met Vagus more especially moving him into her house after only three weeks after meeting her.
But as she says he was a different person in the beginning and said all the right things to her. Somewhere in there women there is a lesson!
-Matthew