Leave,
this guy will wind up killing her if she dosen't.
It's too much trouble she says, a lot less than being dead. Sell everything, move to an entirely different part of the city, and never go back. Don't contact any of "their" freinds ever again. If nessacary get a new job. Moving to an entirely new city isn't out of the question.
Here is the really hard part, If she dosen't take your advice and goes back to this guy, then tell her she can't come to you for help in the future. Warning, you are going to feel like the biggese ######### in the world, but as long as she has an "enabler" she won't change. I had to do this once, it was one of the hardest things I ever did.
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"You may all go to Hell, I shall go to Texas"
David Crockett
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