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Originally Posted by JEP Plain and simple, the police need to be called. Granted I don't live in the area, but I cannot believe that it would take that long for a response. If she is in danger and kids are in danger then the police must be called. If she won't call them, then take it upon yourself to do so. I would also inform child protective services.
I don't know her or her situation and I don't want to sound harsh or cold, but these things continue to happen because they are allowed to happen.
Max, do your friend a favor and inform the police and other authorites. Look for battered women's assistance, child welfare, etc...There has to be people you can call. If she won't do it, then do it yourself. |
For reals dude sounds like a big punk. I figured to beat down on a women he has to be. She seems to think he is crazy. I told her I'd come down there and beat Del Vagus down for her I'm gay but maaaan I can scrap! She said no and wants me to stay out of it,says it's not my business or concern and that she doesn't want me to get hurt.
I was the one that finally made her get the nerve up to kick him out. But now thinks it a huge mistake listening to me. Since her kicking him out did nothing but make him more angry coupled with the fact that he can just break into her house whenever he so chooses. Her friend Shannon is a real kinda stereotypical angy black women and Del Vagus of course doesn't mess with her in fact she says he is scared of her. I tried to inform her that he controls her by fear and that living with him out of fear of being hurt or killed will only kill her even slower.
She says she has kids and a responsibility to her kids to protect them. She hasn't even told her family how bad it's been because she is trying to protect them by keeping them out of it.
I'm kinda at my wits end with her and this situation. I want to do something but not sure what. She says that she is always stressed out and has several breakdowns a day and isn't eating,missing work or getting here late and is danger of being dismissed. But she doesn't want to do anything to make her sitiuation better. As she told me "sometimes Matt just surviving is better then being hit or dying."
-Matthew