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It's four months until the big day! Is it normal to be nervous this far and advance?
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Totally normal. I was having the "did we get this done?" "what do we need to do now" freak out starting about six months. It probably would have been worse if we had planned a normal size wedding instead of a seven guest, two groomsmen, two bridesmaids event at Disney....
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I'm kinda nervous about stepping on people's toes if they don't get a part in the wedding.
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There's gonna be some point where you'll have to remind people (probably parents on both sides) that this is YOUR wedding (your as in yours and your fiancee's). Whatever ideas they had planned might not fit with yours, and they'll have to accept that. For example, my wife's mother wanted a huge wedding in a church. Neither of us are religious, and most of the people in her home town were two faced people she didn't WANT there. So, we did it our way to quote Frank Sinatra.
