I wasn't suggesting that you do anything to jeapordize your relationship with your family as I believe that the relationship with ones family is quite valuable.

What I meant was (and perhaps by first response was a tad abrupt) was that you should always make your own decisions for yourself. YES - by all means, hear your parents out! They MAY have valid opinions which you can research and - as the other member here have said - educate them as to how it REALLY is. Keep them informed. Keep them involved (or as involved as you see fit - only YOU know how to deal with your parents).

My point is - follow your dream (sorry - had to bust out the cliche').

flyguy -- I'm in the same boat as you. My fiance (soon to be my wife as of March 30th) is 100% behind me and I do thank God for her every day! It could be much worse if she were not behind me on this. Good luck! When are you getting hitched?
(feel free to respond on my private message section if you want).