[ready2fly]

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I wish I could say I can relate and understand, but I can't.

I can offer you a couple of pearls of wisdom...

Live your life for you.

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That's really the bottom line. Well said, naunga.

Pretty much my entire life, I've done what I wanted to do the way I wanted to do it, when I wanted to.

Believe me - I've caught a TON of ##### my entire life from friends, family, etc., but on my death bed, I will look back and be glad I did it under my own terms.

Never live for anyone but you. While it is a sad, horrible, and extremely tough time you and your family are going through right now, take a breath and do what's best of you.

Don't begrudge your father right now. Give it time. Let the dust settle - talk to him face to face, eye to eye and man to man, then decide.

Know that you've got our support.

Best of luck!

R2F