[amjon]

Originally Posted by Stone Cold

I did put the "nagging" part in quotations for a reason. Some guys, myself included, can get into moods where we just don't want to talk about whatever it is on our minds. I'm not saying it is right, or wrong, but a guy like myself is definitely wired differently than a female. I'm not into the touchy-feely, tell me what you are thinking type of thing.

My wife and I just celebrated our 7 year anniversary, so I wouldn't say your relationship is doomed...just respect his boundaries. If he gets "his time of month" like my wife refers to it, give him his space and he'll come around.

I hope you did not think I was calling you a nag or being harsh. I'm sure there's a lot more to the story, and not knowing both sides, none of us can provide you the guidance you are wanting. If you think it is a serious problem, maybe you should think about going to some counseling or talking to a mutual friend.

I wish you the best of luck. Hopefully everything works out to your benefit in the end...with that, time for bed. I go home tomorrow!!!

Thanks!
If it was an occasional thing and he talked later it wouldn't bother me, but this is always. He never wants to talk about. I kind of found it odd that we never disagreed about anything.